From ancient myths to modern-day love notes, flowers have always been the go-to gift to say… well, just about anything! Whether you’re saying thank you, I’m sorry, or you’re amazing, flowers do the talking—with colour, fragrance, and flair.
But did you know that different flowers (and even their colours!) carry their own special meanings? Before you grab the first pretty bunch you see, check out this floral cheat sheet to make sure your message hits just right. (Spoiler alert: orange lilies are not your friend.)
The Secret Language of Flowers
Roses – The OG of Romance
Roses are basically the Beyoncé of the flower world—classic, iconic, and a little bit dramatic. Red roses = passionate love (hello, Valentine’s Day). But don’t stop there! White roses whisper purity (perfect for weddings), while peach roses give off major thank you, you’re amazing vibes. Whether you’re romancing someone or just showing appreciation, roses always hit the right note.
Daffodils – Hello New Beginnings
Bright, cheerful, and one of the first flowers to pop up after winter, daffodils are all about hope and fresh starts. They’re the ultimate pick-me-up for someone going through a tough time. In fact, they’re the face of Cancer Council’s “Daffodil Day” campaign, a powerful symbol of support and optimism.
Sunflowers – Instant Mood Boost
Is there a happier flower? Sunflowers radiate warmth and sunshine—literally! They’re loved across the globe and can brighten up anyone’s day. Give them to someone you admire, respect, or just want to make smile. One sunflower or a whole bunch? Either way, they’re a win.
Daisies – Sweet & Innocent
Daisies are the childhood best friend of the flower world—gentle, sweet, and full of good vibes. In Norse mythology, daisies were the fave flower of Freya, goddess of love and fertility. That’s why they’re often used to celebrate new mums and babies. Baby shower bouquet? Sorted.
Lilies – Grace & Sympathy
White lilies are beautiful and serene—often used in sympathy arrangements to symbolise peace and the soul’s return to innocence. They’re the go-to for farewells and remembrance. But don’t get it twisted: orange lilies represent betrayal and hatred (yikes!). So maybe leave those out of the apology bouquet. There are heaps of lily varieties too – Calla, Asiatic, Peace… each with its own style and meaning.
Dahlia – The Bold Achiever
Dahlias are the showstoppers – vibrant, striking, and full of personality. They’re all about inner strength and poise under pressure, which makes them the perfect gift for someone who just smashed a milestone. New job? Graduation? Big win? Send some dahlias and say, “You nailed it.”
Peonies – Romance & Prosperity
Peonies are big, lush, and ultra-romantic. They’re often tied to marriage, prosperity, and good fortune. In Chinese culture, they’re called the “king of flowers” and are considered an omen of wealth and honour. Whether you’re celebrating love or new beginnings, peonies are the perfect choice.
Tulips – Perfect Love & Elegance
Tulips are all about deep love and elegance. Red tulips symbolise true love, while yellow tulips once represented jealousy, but now lean more towards cheerful thoughts. They’re super popular in spring bouquets and make a great gift for someone you adore – romantically or platonically.
Orchids – Beauty & Luxury
Exotic and refined, orchids symbolise rare beauty, strength, and sophistication. They’re often associated with luxury and can be a striking choice for someone you deeply respect or admire. Plus, they last ages, so they’re great as long-term décor too.
Lavender – Serenity & Devotion
Lavender isn’t just a pretty scent, it’s a symbol of peace and tranquillity. Lavender can also represent devotion and purity. Perfect for someone who needs a little stress relief or spiritual recharge, it’s an ideal flower to send when you want to show that you truly care.
